How do you feel when your partner says or does the following? Answer any that apply to you.
 
  How come you haven't lost weight yet?
  I love you
  The house is a mess
  Can I help?
  Why can't you stop the baby crying?
  I like seeing you with our baby
  Can't you talk about anything but the baby?
  You look as though you need a rest
  Why don't you understand how I'm feeling?
  Don't worry about dinner, we'll work it out
  We have no time alone together
  This is hard work but we'll get through it together
  Whatever happened to sex?
  It doesn't matter if the house is untidy
  You're still going to the gym/footy/pub/golf and I can't go anywhere
  You are doing a fantastic job
  Why don't you come home earlier?
  Why can't you be more help?
  It's not your fault that the baby is crying
  How come you have to ask me what to do?

How do you feel when your partner says or does the following? Answer any that apply to you.
 
  How come you haven't lost weight yet?
  I love you
  The house is a mess
  Can I help?
  Why can't you stop the baby crying?
  I like seeing you with our baby
  Can't you talk about anything but the baby?
  You look as though you need a rest
  Why don't you understand how I'm feeling?
  Don't worry about dinner, we'll work it out
  We have no time alone together
  This is hard work but we'll get through it together
  Whatever happened to sex?
  It doesn't matter if the house is untidy
  You're still going to the gym/footy/pub/golf and I can't go anywhere
  You are doing a fantastic job
  Why don't you come home earlier?
  Why can't you be more help?
  It's not your fault that the baby is crying
  How come you have to ask me what to do?

How do you feel when your partner says or does the following? Answer any that apply to you.
 
  How come you haven't lost weight yet?
  I love you
  The house is a mess
  Can I help?
  Why can't you stop the baby crying?
  I like seeing you with our baby
  Can't you talk about anything but the baby?
  You look as though you need a rest
  Why don't you understand how I'm feeling?
  Don't worry about dinner, we'll work it out
  We have no time alone together
  This is hard work but we'll get through it together
  Whatever happened to sex?
  It doesn't matter if the house is untidy
  You're still going to the gym/footy/pub/golf and I can't go anywhere
  You are doing a fantastic job
  Why don't you come home earlier?
  Why can't you be more help?
  It's not your fault that the baby is crying
  How come you have to ask me what to do?